according to Lavender's case.....

According to Lavender’s case, I found out that she has lost her rational thinking as a result from great misery. Our therapy session has started about 2 weeks ago and she has told me from A to Z about why and how she stalked Mr. Alfonso. As a doctor of a stalker, I have to analyze the main factor that drives her to stalk him. A degree with honour in psychology from University of Harvard is the proof that my ability and skills can help her.

Lavender is just like any other ‘normal’ woman that I can meet in the streets. As I know from her personal details, she is a bank manager. She had a good working attitude and was very committed in her job. She was a nice manager and always focused in her job according to my conversation that I had with her assistant, Ms. Leola. However, since she broke up with her boyfriend, Lavender becomes more introvert and passive. Besides that she also started to come late to her office. From here, I know that the depression has started to take control over her mind.

From our session I found out that their relationship lasted for 3 years before she was dumped by her boyfriend. After the relationship broke up, she still cannot accept what had happened although she tried hard to forget him and go on with her life. She is unable to handle the stress well. Plus, on that time, she had some problem with her job. What a sympathy lady...

I tried my best to give her a treatment as well. I decided to give her counseling and helped her to clear the mindset from thinking about the revenge. I kept talking with her and sniffed out all that things from her. Actually, Lavender needs someone to love her. Before this, she gives all her life towards her boyfriend. She loves him very much. She has told me that her boyfriends is completely caring and take care about her, but then it is not last forever. Without any reason, her boyfriend broke up their relationship last year. She keeps thinking about it day to day. What she has done to him, why he broke up the relationship, does he love her sincerely or not and so on. So, as a doctor, I have to think rationally to help her out from this problem.

First of all, I gave her some treatment. I asked her to come and see me everyday in getting her treatment. In our therapy session, I let her to speak up every single thing that makes her felt uncomfortable. After 6 days we were talking each other, I realized that Lavender was really depressed because of her boyfriend. She has told me that she never thought her boyfriend is willing to break up their relationship without thinking about her at all. That is why she keeps herself to hate him for the rest of her life.

Then, after 10 days we had therapy session together, actually Lavender has stalked the wrong person. The victim is not her ex-boyfriend. But, his face is quiet similar with her ex-boyfriend. I know it from my own resources. Once I know about it, quickly I speak to her smartly that the person she stalked was the wrong guy. Thankfully, she understands well and accepts all that openly. From the day, I am still giving her such that treatments to keep her from repeat what she had done before. Now, she always contacts me to ask for advice and counseling. I really satisfied with my job in solving this problem especially with Lavender because physically she is just ordinary woman like any other. No one can expect that she is a stalker. So, for the last writing, Lavender is now free from any problem and she is able to move on with her life because she deserves to live happily ever after.



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_D0ct0r Sweeney Todd_08

my mom..she is the most wonderful person in my life...

Here and this moment, i juzt want to share a piece of my story with all of u guys..u know what?? i call her,mama...that is the most beautiful word i can describe... how can i say about her...very special in my life...no one can replace her..since i was born to this world, she was the only person who has given me a lot of things especially her unlimited love, unending sacrifices, undivided attention and so on...i know,all of u have your own mother..of course she's a special person in ur life, extremely rite???so, as long as we are still have our time, let's appreciate them..before we forget that they are very2 important in our life..juzt think it urself, without her, how can u become 'someone' like this now??

i know, actually i'm supposed to tell a story which is more interesting to all of u, but then i'm so sowi becoz rite now, in my mind, i'm juzt thinking about my mom...i miss her so much..cannot describe with other word...this is we called, the power of mother...hahaha, am i rite??u know what, before i decide to pursue my preparation course at taylor college, subang jaya, i have to face a lot of obstacles in my life...honestly, since i was in kindergarten until this age, i have never been away from my mom..never in my life..unbelieveable rite??even my previous school provided a hostel for its students, i never take the chance to spend a night there..don't know why..i think, it is better for me to stay at my own house even i always come late to the school...becoz my house was a bit far from the school...that's why i always got the punishment from my disciplinary teacher...hakzhakzhakz..never mind lah..
okkayy...now, back to my story...hahaha...actually, that's all my excuses to avoid from being separated with my mom..hahaha...naughty gurl rite???iqa,iqa...but then, honestly...after i made my decision to pursue my study in this college, i become more matured compared to before ..even i'm still missing my mom, but i'm giving my best to be more optimistic..meaning to say, it is a hardest thing to do especially something that is related with ur feeling...seriously,i admit that this is not easy for me to be like the other person which are already familiar with all this..but then, i always tell myself that, i can do it..nothing is impossible if i have the strength and the most important is my pray to Allah SWT to give me the strength that i need the most as well as all the happiness and bless to my beloved family....once again, so sowi guys if my story is too short and bored...i still have to learn more things especially in improving my writing skill becoz honestly,i don't like much to write a story but to read it is fine with me...of course i'm talking bout the comics...hahaha...(specially dedicated to my roomate who loovesss manga n anime...hehe...she wrote this herself)..her name is adilah...!!!ahakzahakzahakz...byebye...arigatokhuzaimas...hihihi...